quick reflection on bisexuality after one of my bisexual friend spoke with me yesterday about his tensions. and this post is dedicated to him.
if you are straight, you get to enjoy the best of the straight world. and if you are gay, you get to enjoy the best of the gay world. so by this logic, if you are bisexual, you get to enjoy the best of both the straight and the gay worlds. no? logical chain of argument rite? but how true is this? another way to look at it could possibly be that if you are bisexual, you also get to experience the worst of both worlds... and worst still, have to balance managing the straights with the gays and the gays with the straights...
well, matter of perspectives i guess. half full or half empty.
and whatever it is, my conclusion about life still stands - (does not matter whether you are straight or gay or bisexual), as long as you are happy. as long as you find meaning in your life.
be happy.
if you are straight, you get to enjoy the best of the straight world. and if you are gay, you get to enjoy the best of the gay world. so by this logic, if you are bisexual, you get to enjoy the best of both the straight and the gay worlds. no? logical chain of argument rite? but how true is this? another way to look at it could possibly be that if you are bisexual, you also get to experience the worst of both worlds... and worst still, have to balance managing the straights with the gays and the gays with the straights...
well, matter of perspectives i guess. half full or half empty.
and whatever it is, my conclusion about life still stands - (does not matter whether you are straight or gay or bisexual), as long as you are happy. as long as you find meaning in your life.
be happy.
2 comments:
Dear auntie agony (mo cho jie),
when so mayn friends run to u, it does reflect well that u are dispensing good advices or a good listening partner.
i just couldn't help wondering abt the last sentence. It's something we say all the time but at the same time, how many of us do really practise it. Everyone still wants to "fit in" & not be treated like freaks.
Sigh... when will this society be mature enou for people like us (on the fringes).
Sometime.somewhere......there's a place for us...
as long as one is happy ... :)
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