germs

i recieved a very nice surprise today. it was an email from a dear friend who had moved to germany many years ago; and with whom i re-connected not too long ago when i came out to him (well... i think we both knew, but was a case of don't ask, don't tell). he has finally tied the knot with his other half! a civil union as it was termed. he titled his email - "it's a sin". i thought a better title would be "it's a celebration!".

in the email, two photos were attached. one showing them exchanging rings and the other posing outside a nice building and them holding a bouquet of flowers. very pretty! and for the very first time in so many years, i get to see his face again. he has put on some weight. and he looked great! always thought he was a bit underweight years back when we were in uni! they both looked radiant in the photos. it must have been a long and arduous journey for them to reach this. i envy them. how i wish we could do the same here.

well, this email brought a smile to me. quite rare for me these days considering the chain of not too pleasant events that happened recently. certainly felt very happy for him and his partner and i sincerely wish them well and long lasting happiness!