Saturday, 17 April 2010

one long time tension down

one tension laid to rest.

i raised my voice at my boss one particular evening in sep 1999 when we were involved in a major conduct of a regional seminar involving 35 countries. i was the main person running the seminar and he was the chairperson. anyway, i saw him in facebook recently and decided to add him. and finally after 2 weeks, he accepted me as `friend'. and i decided to close the issue and apologize to him. here's what i wrote:

it's good to be able to link up with you here. hope you have been well! and there is one more issue. it is something that has been irking me for a long time and i would like to close it.

i need to apologize to you for my rudeness on one particular evening on 11 Sep 1999. it was during xxxx and i raised my voice at you. i could have better managed myself in that incident, which i obviously did not, and i do sincerely apologize to you for that. it has been in me all these years. initially it was my pride that prevented me from apologizing. but over time, it was a sense of awkwardness and embarassment that prevented made me from doing so. i was even more embarrassed by the fact that you were so nice to me when i was in xxxx.

i think it is time for me to overcome my ownself and to bring myself to do it. so once again, i would like to sincerely apologize to you for that incident. you have been a boss and a friend and i do thank you for the years of guidance and trust.


now, that felt good!

:-)

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