walking at the park

brought sapphie out for a walk last evening. a 2-hr walk. thought it was a nice way to get her to exercise and to keep her company on a saturday afternoon. today, bee came along.

it was the same route. but it turned out more meaningful that i had expected. during the walk, we stopped regularly for me to groom sapphie and to let her take a breather. and during one of those stops, bee opened up to me. he told me of his disappointments in me over some issues. i was rather surprised. and as the conversation went on, i took the opportunity to share my tensions about him too. the conversation just flowed. i was glad it occurred. it helped us see and better understand how our behaviours had caused some tensions in the other party. rightly or wrongly, it doesn't matter. fact was, it occurred. at times, it was due to mis-perceptions. at times, it was due to one of us being insensitive to the other.

in some ways, i was disappointed as i was still not able to find some of my answers. yet i take solace in the fact that i was able to share my thoughts with him. overall, i was glad the conversation occurred.