upset sister

my 2nd sister came over last evening and from what she described after the visit, i could only conclude she was very angry and upset with my mum. haha! 

you see, for the longest time, she has been telling me that i should be patient la la la... and recently my mum kept calling her to tell her that i always go out with 2 women who were out to harm her. and of cos, she played along and told her that the 2 women had died. but mum continued. and whenever she told her about these 2 women, sis would call me and clarify. of cos, all these were pure nonsense and a result of her paranoia, delusion and dementia.

and yesterday, as i had planned to head out for a drink, i asked her to come over to keep mum company. and that was what she did. i left not too long after she arrived and she chatted with mum. after i left, i smsed her to check if mum needed food. mum had complained that the chicken rice i bought for her was too little and i was hoping that she would pack something for mum. afterall, it would not be nice for mum to go to bed with an empty stomach. and so, she checked with mum and after a while, mum told her she threw away the chicken rice i bought (as i had suspected but thought i should not ask). and this was despite the fact that it was she herself who had asked me to buy chicken rice. she added that when i went out to buy dinner, 2 woman went along and had put in some poison into the rice. her remarks totally threw my sister off. 

she chided mum for all the nonsense and tensions she created for me and about all the nonsensical stuff she had been imagining and spewing. and she tried to rationalize with mum that if i really wanted to poison her, there was really no need to use the chicken rice. instead, there were so many possible avenues for me to do so and that i would have done so if i wanted to. and to top it off, she told mum that if she really had a problem staying with me, she should just move out of my place and don't bother me with all the nonsense. wahhh... and so, in the end, it was me telling her to just relax and let mum be. if she refuses to eat, she will only suffer her own action, there is really nothing that we can do. after all, she is a sick person and as long as we have tried our best, we should just let her be.

i think all my siblings (or at least my 2nd sis and bro) are getting irritated with her behavior. and from what i see, my only conclusion is that their patience are running thin. just last week, my brother chided her for giving me all the problems and her refusal to take food, medication, etc... and his chiding caught me off-guard.

hmmm...

picture from http://www.foodrepublic.com/2012/07/16/lunch-singapore-chicken-rice