for reasons unknown or perhaps just an uncanny coincidence, i received a couple of whatsapp messages from friends. first, it was from sam, a constant source of support, although some of his suggestions may, at times seemed difficult to implement... and i also got a whatsapp message from another friend in hk. it was past mid-night and the message came in - how are you? everything ok?
it was so nice to hear from alvin. and being a buddhist himself, and a social worker, he gave me some advise about how to manage such situations. and offered to help me check for support resources.
i am grateful i have friends to support me emotionally when things get tough. and talking about friends and support, i personally also think it would be useful if bee can see himself as part of the solution and be more forthcoming in engaging mum. his avoidance of mum only further aggravate the challenge and reinforces mum's perception of him as a hostile person... then again, i can only hope for this to happen.
it was so nice to hear from alvin. and being a buddhist himself, and a social worker, he gave me some advise about how to manage such situations. and offered to help me check for support resources.
i am grateful i have friends to support me emotionally when things get tough. and talking about friends and support, i personally also think it would be useful if bee can see himself as part of the solution and be more forthcoming in engaging mum. his avoidance of mum only further aggravate the challenge and reinforces mum's perception of him as a hostile person... then again, i can only hope for this to happen.
17 comments:
hmm, good luck n keep moving!
thanks wizard.
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wow , ur hawt !
hey is that you? cos he doesn't look like unker at all leh! LOL... btw, I actually don't know what to advice you, cos I have no experience at all..hmmm...
haha... tat was an old photo la... 8 yrs ago. now really an unker!
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hor, trying to deceive people! LOL...but I strongly believe that now you wouldn't be bad looking also lo, haha!
hmmm... haha... thanks hor. all the more i shouldn't ever post any current photo liao. lolx!
i saw liao shark shark, not bad at all la:) not too young like us, but not too old to be daddy-ish so its the prime age! :) hahaha
thanks hor tuls... next time u cum sgp, i buy you v good dinner! better than the one we had when you last visited!
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why do i sense so much flirting...ah pek!
BTW, i can understand Bee in that it is difficult for him to relate to yr mum* and especially under the circumstances; considering how yr other siblings are reacting, i guess that bee is doing a fabulous job in comparison.
* Blood is always still thicker than...up to yr imaginations ;)
hehe.. another reason to go to sg!! :) i thankiu first... lolllllll... i will tebal muka de come dont you worry!! :)
hahaha... germs, flirting? no la... i am always so affectionate with my friends. heh :-)
tuls, cum cum! sgp will welcome you with open arms! haha!
lol.. hi germsy! :) im looking for a daddy-ish figure now! are you one?! lol...... jokingjoking... hahahahah... i dont go for married one dont worry.. lolll...
peace gor, must be too affectionate leh, later all the younger ones will fall for you leh.. i hope bees sees this, ask him to have his eyes on you more! lolllllll... lalalala.... say hi to him for me.. :) muacks!
younger one fall for me? wa... thanks for seeing me so up lor... haha... and don't worry abt my bee, looking at me, he'll be very surprise if i have my market value still... haha!
(bee hor?)
got got sure got people falling for you, hahaha! market still high~
tuls you called me shark shark, hahahaha!
hmmm shark shark... must be blind people... they must have felt my affections! :P
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