during one of the week nights, i decided to drop by fort road car park.
i wanted to take a brisk walk/ run but didn't want to head to changi business park. i decided on fort road as i was also curious what had become of the place since they cordoned off the car park areas to reconstruct the jogging path and widen the road. when i arrived, i chanced upon an old friend, someone whom i could click pretty well with many many years ago. for that matter, when i was based in the tampa florida back in 2004, he had a business trip to tallahassee and i took the effort to drive all the way up to meet him and to bring him around florida. that was almost 10 years back. since then, i occasionally chanced upon him at fort road but have not actively kept in contact with him. then again, i have lost his contact since i changed my phone some years back.
anyway, when i arrived at fort road and parked my car, i had noticed him. i noted he saw me too but didn't recognised it was him. i was checking my phone for messages when he walked to up to my car, took a look inside and exclaimed oh, it is you! i supposed he must have felt embarrassed to have tried to cruise me. he quickly walked away. nonetheless, i left my car and walked up to him. we exchanged pleasantries but he seemed pretty unenthusiastic about carrying the conversation further. i took the hint but before parting, asked for his number to keep in contact. he hesitated and said, haltingly, errr nowadays my friends contact me via facebook... well, i got the message, loud and clear. oh ok, in that case, seeya. i smiled and left that place. i didn't even go for my run. to me, that was the rudest thing to say. and for that moment, i struck him off my friend list in my mindbook...
really, life is too short for such nonsense.
ps: admittedly, i did a search for him in facebook and he cannot be found.
Thats rude of him!
ReplyDeleteHahah... Rejection from an old friend feels kinda weird and to a small extent forces one to do a little (just a momentary, wee bit) of soul-searching.
ReplyDelete:-)
Hi Jeffrey,
ReplyDeleteWow, I hope he isn't as bitter and isolated as that sounds.
Life moves on and people who don't can become sad ghosts living in the past.
Best wishes, Edwin
Hey Edwin,
ReplyDeleteAdmittedly, one side of me simply shut him off and moved on, especially at that very moment of "rejection". But once objectivity set in, I really hoped he's ok. But of cos, whatever the reasons behind such an attitude is for him to manage.
Jeffrey