so sad...

it's not easy to have a constructive discussion when whatever you say, people suspect you want to harm them or steal work from them. they always start their sentence with a "no", or "it's not my", etc... the next thing you know, they quote who's who has cleared this or that, or had endorsed it. like as though i am afraid. and then they sent you an email asking you not to misunderstand them la la la... and they would cc the mail to everyone up there.

i wonder how people can live with the constant stress of such fears.

so sad right?