Thursday, 17 September 2020
Negative
Monday, 14 September 2020
Scope Review
Sunday, 13 September 2020
POL - Learning & Reinventing
I am in my 50s.
Years ago, when I was a kid, I was told I will be successful in life once I get a degree. I will be able to get a good job, marry a good wife, have a good family, and so on and so forth. I was brought up to believe that a degree is the end all and the only thing I need for my life to be good. Getting a degree became one major focus, and for that matter, it was not just about pursuing a degree, it was to get a good degree. And so, with only a very vague view of what the world was like, the pursue of a good life boiled down to one basic principle - study hard, get good grades, go to university (and get a good degree).
Teachers back then were highly respected and parents listened to them. After all, they were the gateway to all information. It was the time where internet was not available and information was scarce. School life was very regimented and studies were very focused on getting good grades. The education system focused on developing my cognitive abilities, particularly in the areas of science, English and mathematics. On the other hand, my parents (primarily my mum) shaped my values in life. I grew up a very “typical” product of the Singapore education system.
Looking back, I had taken a path shaped by what’s available and what people asked me to do. It wasn’t based my career aspirations. For that matter, the idea of career aspirations was vague. At that time, it seemed like everyone wants to be a doctor or a lawyer. And so, like many of my peers, I went for medical school interview but didn’t make it. I eventually became a military person, almost primarily because I needed the money to get a degree. And that kinda fix me for the next decade or so. In the military, my career progression was very structured and everything was planned for. And for many of us, we only had one aim - to work hard, do well and get promoted. Post-service life was not something we need to pay too much attention to. Just focus on doing well in your work. Duty Honour Country - that was the mantra that was regularly in the forefront of our thought processes.
What I went through back then was totally different from what I am experiencing now. In the corporate world, changes occur at a lightning speed. Expectations are different. You have to work hard constantly to stay relevant or your are out. Expectations from leaders are also different as they were shaped by a hugely differently environment during their growing up years. To stay relevant, one needs to constantly learn, unlearn and relearn and remain constantly on his toes and to be aware of new and upcoming trends so that he can be ready for it. Our earlier mindset of working hard in the early decade of our working life, climb the corporate ladder and take things slower in our latter parts of our career is no longer valid. For many of us, we have learned (or forced) to adapt, even if we had to struggle through it. Learn, unlearn, relearn... that’s the order of the day. But for many others, they have given up and fallen out of the race, choosing to take things slow, do social service, volunteer, etc. And this reminds me of something more fundamental - Charles Darwin - Survival of the Fittest. And another chinese phrase - the waves pushes the earlier waves (that has weaken).
Ok, I’ve been rattling non-stop. Unstructured thoughts that just flow. But it does reflect my frustrations of having to constantly struggle to keep up with the rat race...
Monday, 10 August 2020
POL - Investments
Sunday, 2 August 2020
POL - Retirement
Perspectives of life...
Monday, 27 July 2020
No travelling 2020
Sunday, 26 July 2020
The Rise of the Dragon
Saturday, 25 July 2020
Getting bored
Wednesday, 15 July 2020
Half Year Check-in
Weight Management
Election is OVER!
- Long lost friends would suddenly remember you and spam you with all sorts of messages (most of which are fake and emotional) to discredit some politicians or political parties (esp the ruling party) and to try to get you to vote for the opposition. Doesn't matter for the fact that many of the messages are fake and had been forwarded umpteen times.
- Old flames will appear and chat with you about how things would be if we were to be together, etc and then very quickly, the conversation would turn to discrediting some politicians and/ or political parties (esp the ruling party) and idolising about the opposition.
- Uncles, aunties and cousins would text you with emotional stories about how the politicians from the incumbent government are "lying" about dishing out monies to people and keeping monies for themselves. One of my cousin said an MP was lying when she said the average amount of money spend per capita for COVID-19 is 23K cos she (my cousin) only received $600. She obviously didn't take into consideration the context of when the speech was made and she obviously and conveniently forgot about the thousands of support schemes put in place to ensure Singaporeans are protected during this period.
- And needless to say, all the alternative voices / media, etc will go on non-stop about all sorts of news, including lots of old news (politician's pay, CPF, education, succession, etc) to discredit the current ruling party, while glorifying everything and anything about the opposition parties and politicians, regardless of the many instances where these oppositions have fallen short of expectations.
Saturday, 11 July 2020
Scam
The conversation went along well. He would text me in the morning, disappear for the day and text me again in the evenings. And each time he text, he would send me his pics. Thought this behavior was weird. Two days into the conversation, his profile in my Grindr disappeared. I asked him about it but he didn’t answer. And the next morning, he said he might be activated to Dubai as they had some issues there. A few hours later, he texted me with a pic of him, saying he had just arrived at Dubai and was gonna take a shower. Now, this was when I started to suspect this chap. Firstly, traveling during this lockdown period is almost never heard of. I google about travel arrangements into Dubai and noted that although they are out of the lockdown period, they are still very restrictive to international biz travelers. And because I had been Dubai before, I know exactly the challenges of making traveling arrangements to get there. My suspicion started to grow but I didn’t pursue further.
Monday, 6 July 2020
Preventing COVID-19
Sunday, 5 July 2020
Mental well-being
Do magic!
Friday, 3 July 2020
Stomach scope
Que sera sera.
Thursday, 2 July 2020
Horrifying developments
Black Spots
Saturday, 27 June 2020
Reading Foreign News
Saving & Protecting People
- Implementing schemes to cover a certain % of citizen's pay so that companies do not retrench citizens
- Implementing schemes to help companies employ and retrain new staff (e.g. retrenched staff, older citizens)
- Implementing placement programes to assist citizens find jobs
- Implementing programs to place new university graduates into companies to ensure we do not end up having a "lost" generation
- Facilitate temporary mass-job placements for those affected (e.g. many in the aviation industry such as cabin crew and ground staff are now working as caregiver in hospitals and social distancing ambassadors at public places to ensure social distancing)
- Setting up job coaching/ placement offices across the different estates
- Implementing schemes to help Companies/ SMEs mitigate losses (including rental reimbursement, staff costs, etc)
- Providing citizens & households with top ups/ financial support to mitigate livelihood-related expenses (e.g. utilities, transport)
- Distributing masks (at least 3 rounds executed over last 3 months) to the populace
- Increase capacity in contact tracing, conduct test for all vulnerable groups and personnel involved in frontline/ critical functions & eventually expanding testing to the larger populace
- Reinforcing public education about the pandemic and how to stay safe
- Encouraging those with symptoms to get tested
- Covering the cost of testing as well as the quarantine for those found infected
- Keeping communications open and transparent; and clamping down on fake news quickly
- the list just go on and on.
Transition to New Norm?
Tuesday, 23 June 2020
Upcoming Elections
Thursday, 11 June 2020
Grindr & Confidence
Sunday, 7 June 2020
Grease
- Great Lightning
- Sandy
- You're the One that I Want...
Lol!
Saturday, 6 June 2020
Funny Moments
- I happily sent out an email for a meeting to a whole lot of colleagues. And within minutes, I got a reply from an unfamiliar name asking if she was required for the meeting. I then realised I had send the mail to a Mayee instead of Mayble. Thankfully, there was no classified information in the email. Got it corrected quickly.
- Before heading to the A&E yesterday, I decided to make myself a plate of dry fried mee sua (rice noodle). You see, just like spaghetti, you have to boil the mee sua for a couple of minutes before straining (sieve) it through a strainer. And as I did so, I wondered why the mee sua dropped into the sink instead of into the strainer. To my horrors, I realised that I had held the strainer upside down!
Conjunctivitis & the young eye doctor
End of Lockdown
Wednesday, 3 June 2020
I wish you Peace
Monday, 1 June 2020
Weight loss
Lawyer's Letter
Fine?
Saturday, 30 May 2020
Lasering the Eye
Housefly in Vision
Sunday, 24 May 2020
CB-"achievements"
PS: I shall attempt to go further than 29,000 steps today...
Saturday, 23 May 2020
Lawyer’s letter - wtf
Saturday, 16 May 2020
Car Repaired
Thursday, 14 May 2020
Politicising a Pandemic
But this is what I see in some countries. It is very sickening. But above all, it is very sad to see the lack of leadership, and the lack of unity in the want to manage the pandemic. I strongly believe that if we want to win this battle against the virus, we need to be united. And I say so cos we are so intertwined in all aspects as a human race. But sadly, united is the last thing that is happening now. And so, as the pandemic drags on, people continue to fall ill by the thousands and lives continue to be lost.
Looks like it's gonna be a long drawn pandemic for the world.
Sighs.
Thursday, 7 May 2020
Tuesday, 5 May 2020
Me
And quite surreal too.
Sunday, 3 May 2020
Head on car collision
Saturday, 2 May 2020
Be grateful
Tuesday, 28 April 2020
Grieving the loss of normalcy
Saturday, 25 April 2020
Disappearing Sex Drive
Ironing Board Work Desk
Thursday, 23 April 2020
Fourth Lunar Month
WFH routines
- I block my calendar to prevent people from sending me meeting invites at unreasonable times eg during lunch or in the evenings.
- I block my calendar to make sure I have time to do my work, engage my staff, as a team and one on one. Its crazy how some people assume you are always free just because your schedule has an innocent looking unblocked slot.
- I block my time to give myself the me time to rest mentally. This may be to catch up with rest, to cook my lunch, to do my personal admin, etc. Come to think of it, when I work from office, we planned for travel time to meetings, meeting breaks etc. These gives us the mental breaks we need.
Tuesday, 21 April 2020
Respecting others
We in Singapore are definitely much more than that.
Saturday, 18 April 2020
Netflix
- Crash Landing onto You
- Sky Castle
- Kingdom
- Friends
- Kim's Convenience
- Ossan's Love in the Sky
- Crown
- Happy Together
- Ponyo
- Spirited Away
- Howl’s Moving Castle
