alvin

finally decided to share with alvin a bit about myself. outed myself last evening. alvin was my student. someone whom i taught last year. and of cos, i had suspected him for the longest time (tell tale signs include his behaviour, his enthusiasm and his way of seeing some things, his attention to things that a str8 would not usually see - in short - gaydar, bumping into him at bv pool, and so on)... yet i see no reasons nor desire to want to ask him further. it's up to him to reveal. it's his life to lead. and i respect that. and i got my confirmation when i bumped into him one night at the fort road car park while waiting for bee to knock off work! well, of cos he didn't know it was me la... it was so so dark... heh!

anyway, i decided to out myself to him last evening for the simple reason that i see no need to hide. he is a friend and there is no reason why i should try to hide my sexuality from a friend, much less a friend who is also gay.