unlocked

i have decided to unlock my blog after locking it last week. 

i locked it as it was my first defensive reflex action following receiving an email from an anonymous person who claimed to know me and in that same mail, asked me for money. to me, that email sounded a little blackmail-ish too. borrowing (using a nice word instead of extorting, blackmailing, cheating, whatever) was something i couldn't reconcile. how can anyone do such a thing? i will never do that. i would be too embarrassed to ask for money, much less from someone who mailed me out of nowhere.  

well, i have thought about it and decided that in behaving this way, it would give people more reasons to blackmail me. and that is not me. i have had such treatment exacted onto me by mindef and it cost me a whole lot of tensions and health-related issues. and i will not let anyone make me uncomfortable again. i thought about it and concluded that i actually have nothing to be afraid of cos i am perfectly comfortable with my sexuality. and what is more, after mindef, i have made further inroads with our local security circles and i believe tracking down this person is an easy peesy thing if i want to.

no one can touch me now. i shall reflect on what happened during last week in another post.

:-)