two nights ago, i had a very weird dream about sex. but no, it was not a wet dream. i dont think i ever had any wet dreams since my teens! haha... tmi. but yeah, it was really far from it, it was a dream involving sex but the whole feel was very non-sexual. here's how the dream went.
for some reasons, i was with two colleagues of mine. let's call them dan and meng. dan, like me, was a former military person and he joined my company last year. as for meng, i have worked very closely with him and his team in several projects over the past months. meng is someone i admire as he has this way with people, the way he communicates and the way he wins people over. very suave.
in the dream, dan had apparently invited meng and i to a whorehouse. yes, a prostitute's den. it was in celebration of something we had completed. i remembered feeling very out of place. i was not interested in girls! but i played along. and with this invite, the scene changed quickly to that of a room, at times it was dimly lit, and at times when i wanted details, it seemed sufficiently bright. ok, in the room, there was a young lady. she was in her 20s. dan mentioned something along the line about enjoying ourselves and loudly declared that the fun is on him (he will pay for it). i remembered vaguely that it will cost sgd350 per person. meng politely replied that we should all pay our share but dan insisted on paying.
anyway, the scene quickly changed. and next thing i knew, all of us were naked (i think i was, but i wasn't sure, i was watching the whole event as it unfolded in front of me). i saw dan lying supine (on his back) on the bed. his buttocks was on the edge of the bed and his leg dangled by the side. and before i knew it, meng went over and sat on him, both facing me. yup, dan was literally screwing meng from his back and they asked the prostitute over to serve meng. all these while, i was just standing in front of them, watching them. the "camera" in the dream zoomed in to show a close up of the screwing and the sucking that was happening at that point in time. and soon enough, one of them (cannot recall who) asked me to join in....
anyway, the scene quickly changed. and next thing i knew, all of us were naked (i think i was, but i wasn't sure, i was watching the whole event as it unfolded in front of me). i saw dan lying supine (on his back) on the bed. his buttocks was on the edge of the bed and his leg dangled by the side. and before i knew it, meng went over and sat on him, both facing me. yup, dan was literally screwing meng from his back and they asked the prostitute over to serve meng. all these while, i was just standing in front of them, watching them. the "camera" in the dream zoomed in to show a close up of the screwing and the sucking that was happening at that point in time. and soon enough, one of them (cannot recall who) asked me to join in....
the dream ended there. as i said, it was a dream involving mmf sex and would possibly end up with an mmmf foursome. but no, for some weird reasons, it was not erotic to me. the whole thing seemed so clinical (short of a better word). and despite the two persons in the dream were dan and meng, i really cannot connect the sex scene with the real persons. and if i recalled correctly, i was stirred from my sleep and even in that half-asleep state, i do not even recall having a hard on!
haha... whatever the case, i make no heads or tail of the dream.
Hi Jeffrey,
ReplyDeleteThis would definitely qualify as a personal dream ;-)
My experience is the more comfortable one becomes with their subconscious expressions the less symbolic and more straightforward the dreams become: what you see is exactly what it is about. Up to you to work through those feelings.
If you agree with your subconscious that scene is not for you than you're done.
Fortunately, men have a handy thermometer and imagination to take the temperature of the various elements of the dream. Just don't try to take readings when a cold breeze would raise the termperature ;-)
Or, it is symbolic and really is about work: do you feel those co-workers named are improperly excited about working with the new management?
My two cents, Edwin
Haha... The para on the thermometer can be read with a huge pun on the word "thermometer"... Then again, when cold, I am sure the thermometer would probably look like a dipstick!
ReplyDeleteOk ok, pardon my momentary distractions... Yup, agree on the part about things being less symbolic if one is familiar with the event. As for this dream, I am just inclined to ignore it and take it that it really is an outcome of something very insignificant (my colleagues) convoluted by an overactive mind given the fact that I had watched some erotic stuff (read - porn) before bedtime!
Lol! Ok, too much info for this post!
Jeffrey