i had a weird dream 2 nights ago. i believe it might have been triggered by my new boss' text and perhaps reflects my anxieties about this new job that i'll be starting soon. but there were quite a few parts that i cannot make sense of. here's the dream...
in the dream i was living in a flat (public housing) with my mum and, i think, my brother. we lived on the second level of the block of flats. a few units away, there lived a guy. this guy looked rather dodgy. in the dream, he was standing at the common corridor and kept staring at my unit. my mum was in the house and this guy came over and spoke with my mum. he said something about signing a contract but my mum didn't respond (interestingly, my mum did not utter a single word through the whole dream). i walked over and told him that he should talk to me about all things, and not to my mum. i took a look at the contract and he explained that he wanted my mum to sign it, iterating that the contract is to ensure we do not talk about the fact that someone had died in his unit. i said we will not sign it and that whatever happened in his unit was for him to manage. he insisted and and said that if my mum and i refused to sign it, he will ask my brother to, to which i said my brother didn't know english and thus he, too, was in no position to sign anything.
the scene changed to the ground floor by the roadside. this guy was waiting for public transport. my mum had left the house after the incident above. i didn't where she had gone to. i was walking towards the bus stop and this guy confronted me. again, he said he wanted me to sign the contract. and again i resisted. at that very moment, two trucks appeared. both trucks were decked with all sort of taoist religious decorations. i saw a whole lot of people in the first truck, they were all dressed in that kinda attire that reminded me of those lion or dragon dancers. and there was traditional chinese drums beating away. the truck was moving slowly towards me. the second truck had similar group of guys but interestingly amongst these guys, i saw my mum. she was wearing a chinese traditional attire similar to that of chinese warriors. she came towards me and in her hand, she carried a statue of a chinese taoist god. and she smiled at me...
i woke up after that...
Hi Jeffrey,
ReplyDeleteI think you have the core of the dream. You would have some additional insight if you can remember the attributes of the particular god your mum was carrying. I would go the additional step of observing that your mum was at a good place, happy, in her traditional beliefs and new role.
My mother had her 93rd birthday this week, but she didn't want to celebrate (a bit of self-pity over getting older: she had finally come to terms with losing the ability to accurately distinguish colors due to her age related macular degeneration: she has been less able for the last two years ;-) I brought her some treats and displayed the plant my eldest brother had sent and she got out of it. She is ready to go (she lost another sister in August: only three of the eleven siblings are left).
Great to hear you had a very memorable birthday: well deserved.
Best wishes, Edwin
Hey Edwin,
ReplyDeleteYes, the Taoist deity figurine that my mum carried in the dream was that of the "Tua Pek Kong" - a Taoist God that is commonly worshipped as a protector of the village and/ or household as well as the Wealth God. But what was it was interesting was that this figurine was made of stone (not too far from those found at the cemetery) but had flowers on it too! heh...
Your mum is really blessed to live to 93 and having a family that dotes on her. Nice! I do noticed she's also born in Dec (like me!). Must have been challenging for her to be slowly losing her basic capabilities to age. My mum had similar issues with her eye but for her, it was her left eye that was affected and she was near blind for that eye. Thankfully, her right eye was ok. Anyway, I do wish you, your mum and all your loved ones a Merry Christmas and may this coming year be a really good, and happy one!
Thanks for the encouragement and support all these years.
Jeffrey
Hi Jeffrey,
ReplyDeleteThank you for your wishes.
Beyond the significance the flowers might have in Taoist beliefs (I admit to vast areas of ignorance :-), and their possible association with regeneration, I would speculate on prosperity. If the flowers were in bud, then good fortune in the longer future; if they were in bloom then sooner.
I would recommend being open to opportunities and being ready to make the best of them.
My wishes to you and yours for Health, Wealth and Happiness in the season and the coming New Year.
Edwin