mum has behaved in a rather weird manner these last week or so. while i have accepted it as a norm that she was very suspicious of people, it was another thing altogether when she started behaving weird. you see, couple of days back, as i approached my main door, i noticed tissue paper sticking out of the peep hole. i pulled out the paper and asked mum if she had placed it in there. she replied yes and explained that she didn't want the maid to peep into the house, especially in the daytime when i was at work and not at home.
hmmm...
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Hi, I read about your mum's past in your earlier posts. She has gone through so much hardships, some I can never imagine.
Born at a later time, I consider myself fortunate. 3 years into my marriage and still no baby, my MIL started to question and put pressure on us. She even questioned my mum about my infertility. My husband would find me in tears every month.
I am grateful to a number of people who had helped fulfill my dream to be a mother. My ex lady- boss recommended me a good gynecologist who worked on us immediately. My previous gyne was getting us nowhere. When my MIL asked me who was the problem, I told her both of us. It kind of alleviated the stress on me because I was not the only one with fertility problems.
Thanks to my husband who supported me throughout by undergoing checkups, treatment and corrective surgery together with me. He was not keen on children actually. It must have been very unpleasant for him to have a lady gyne checked him and to produce samples on demand several times. I finally conceived my elder son with the help of artificial insemination and TCM provided by my dad to strengthen my womb.
When I tried for a second child as I feel being an only child is too lonely, it was even harder because of my age. With the help of IVF and herbal tonics from my dad and support from my husband, my second son, a test-tube baby, became a reality. Now my family is complete.
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we find happiness from our perspectives of things. it is regretful that my mum had gone through what she went through, but i can only say she is a person of her time. as her son, the least i can give her is the love, care and concern and to ensure she is as happy as she can be today.
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