Yes, youthfulness (there such a word? or should it be just `youth'? well, what the heck!) does turn me on, and young people do possess that certain attraction that makes me melt... but reflecting, I think it is more physical attraction and lust rather than love; perhaps also a manifestation of the insecurities of age catching up.
My experiences thus far tells me that falling in love (or rather, lust?) with someone a dozen years younger than you is not nec a good thing cos invariably, the relationship will tend to be imbalanced. It will be more like you being the older one, behaving like a father, and him, the younger one, taking you for granted - all the time.
And such a relationship does not allow you to grow like what a healthy relationship would. Rather, it'll be more of a parasitic one where one party will leech onto the other... Ultimately, you'll get disappointments after another and eventually, the relationship will just sap you of all your energy... and you'll be left totally exhausted, emotionally, psychologically, and perhaps even financially... move on man!
My experiences thus far tells me that falling in love (or rather, lust?) with someone a dozen years younger than you is not nec a good thing cos invariably, the relationship will tend to be imbalanced. It will be more like you being the older one, behaving like a father, and him, the younger one, taking you for granted - all the time.
And such a relationship does not allow you to grow like what a healthy relationship would. Rather, it'll be more of a parasitic one where one party will leech onto the other... Ultimately, you'll get disappointments after another and eventually, the relationship will just sap you of all your energy... and you'll be left totally exhausted, emotionally, psychologically, and perhaps even financially... move on man!
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