unsuccessful

i got a call from the headhunter yesterday.

i have not so good news for you, she said. i was not surprised when she told me the hiring manager decided to choose another candidate. and she added that the hiring manager was really frank about the fact that she enjoyed our conversation and the frank and open nature that the conversation went. i thanked the headhunter for the feedback and the opportunity. before we ended the conversation, i shared with her that i would be sending a thank you email to the hiring manager and interestingly, the headhunter commented, oh ok, that's so nice of you. i didn't tell you this, but the hiring manager was so surprised and impressed that you actually send an email after your interview. it's such a gentlemanly gesture.

errrrmnmnm, i thought that was just a small courtesy on my part? haha... anyway, i came home and send another email expressing disappointment but appreciation. and after that i forwarded the email to the headhunter for their info and attached an updated resume for their reference and considerations if there should be any new opportunities that come along in future. the opportunity did not materialize but it certainly pushed me to update my resume and practice my interview skills. 

and for that, i am more than happy!