well, i am gonna write about my superbly friendly chiropractor again (i try not to use the term gay-friendly now, compared to the last time cos in the first place, i did not come out to him and it would not be right to say he is gay-friendly).
went for my appointment again today. he was in executive wear and looked bright and cheery in his pink long-sleeved shirt. we chatted as he treated me. and i asked him if there were any reasons why they (he and his other chiropractor) don different outfit on different days of the week. you know, some days executive, some days polo... well, he said "no particular reasons..." and then he asked me which ones i prefer "executive? white polo tees? or black polo tees?" and "why?" well, objectively, what he did was simply doing a check with a customer on his views about their work outfit. i can perhaps see this as part of their customer relations efforts. but then again, it can also be misconstrued as flirting right?
ok, shan't read too much... but another remark caught me totally off-guard. as he gave me his deep tissue massage onto my shoulder, he said, "well, i specially trimmed my nails over the weekend cos i know i will be massaging you today. and i don't want to scratch you with my sharp nails..." aiyoh, so sweet right? for that very moment, i totally didn't know how to respond (but admittedly, i had the picture of his fingers leaving scratch marks on my back mentally! lol!)... it was until late afternoon that i whatsapp him to thank him for his kindess and considerations. he lol-ed and said that it is what he usually does if he needs to give people deep tissue massage... so now, how would you read this remark? flirting? or simply - stating a fact? hahaha...
whatever the case, he is just so sweet!
Hi Peace, my gaydar tells me that hes our club member. Pls verify. lolz.
ReplyDeletehaha... and risk my quality treatments? sometimes, it is better to keep it status quo and continue to enjoy the flirting rather than to open it up, verify it and then feel awkward about it... heheh
ReplyDelete暧昧咯....lolz
ReplyDelete:-) u think so?
ReplyDeleteyah, in a way. Though you are dumbfolded by he mentioned that he trimmed his nails specially for those receiving deep tissue massage. Do you really believe his saying? I supposed you take it as something really personalized , isnt it. lolz. So sweet to core right.
ReplyDeletena, just enjoying the attention as would a customer, and in this case, with a twist cos in our ambiguous gay men in a straight-centric world, things are not so straight forward. Esp when what we see (male/ female) may not necessarily be what we are (gay, straoght, bisexuals, etc). Not a wise thing to make assumptions and to build expectations. Some things are better enjoyed at the moment in time and not read too much into. Hmmm... Reminds me of the phrase that distinguishes what one looks for in a bf (or gf) vs what one looks for in a partner (a wife). They are totally different.
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Oh Yes, pls enjoy every moment of your visit now. hahaha. So does he fit ur criteria of a fling? Shit, what am I saying? Bee might read this. lolz. hahaha.
ReplyDeleteMy criteria? Lol! My bee will be able to describe it better!
ReplyDeletePeace, Bee is soul mate, ur other half not fling rite? lolz.
ReplyDeleteU are v funny. Ur comments are so full of assumptions. Anyway, let's not get personal and keep my expressions as mine. Thanks.
ReplyDeleteHaha, Peace. Just take my assumptions as my wild thoughts. Dun be offended, k. Keep postings so I can keep assuming. lolz.
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ReplyDeleteNa... Not offended at all.