of sugar sons & money boys

i have come across many lads wanting to seek sugar daddies and i have time and again kept away from them. i have no respects and i cannot stand these people for i see them as "backbone-less" and greedy people who go into a transactional relationship where they seek material gains in return for sexual gratifications. one might say they are no different from prostitutes, gigolos or money boys. but i disagree. i think prostitutes/ gigolos/ money boys are more respectable. at least they are upfront and have the guts to acknowledge they are in it for the money, very straight forward. in singapore, many of the money boys hail from china, indonesia as well as a few from vietnam.

i personally do not seek money boys but have had money boys messaging me and asking if i would like their services. i will usually reject them politely. and interestingly, some would even continue to chat with me after i rejected them. and after chatting with them, i kinda get to see their real self, not unlike friends. and as for them, they also respected the fact that i am not keen on their services and did not push me for it. i also had an interesting experience with a vietnamese mb that contacted me for "fun" not in his capacity as an mb, but rather, as a person. he said he was really keen to play with me has he was very attracted to my looks. quite flattering right? lol. and he asked if he could invite his fellow countryman to join in for a 3some. hmmm... 

today, i had an interesting experience in grindr. i received a "hi" and immediately after that a photo. it showed a very well chiselled body although the face was only so-so. naturally, my first response was to thank him for the picture and complemented that he looked good. he enquired if i am chinese and asked me for a body pic. well, i showed him a pic of my torso and he went on a repeatedly replied (over 3-4 messages) with the word "fat". i was taken aback but i simply replied - yes, but that's the body of a 52 year old person and that i am pretty ok with it. i kept calm in my reply although inside me, i was a little disturbed by his response. it was rather rude i thought. and i added importantly i am healthy. and his reply? "you give me money". i was like ---- errr... and i asked if he is an mb? he didn't reply but simply blocked me. such a weird person right? the impression i have was that not only was he was trying to embarrass me for my body, he was also trying to tempt me into a sexual transaction just because he has a chiselled body. 

wtf...