i have decided to change my whatsapp status to "forgive".
i realised i had been harbouring a lot of hatred and angst towards some people at work, particularly my new hod. it was because of this hod that many people in my previous company, and myself, had suffered this demotion. and for me personally, to get a few emails trashing me unfairly and being used as an excuse to get to my previous boss. i need to move beyond taking things personal, much as it was personal from the way my current hod had told me - i have decided to demote you simply because this other person was my ex-colleague and our friendship went back a long way, and if you cannot accept it, i can understand if you choose to leave... will just do my work quietly as i look around for a new job.
and by forgiving, i will be giving myself the chance to be happy again.
2 comments:
Hi Jeffrey,
Glad to hear you have reached this point: good to have positive goals.
Not always easy to control the inner dialogue (at least, I still struggle) but a very worthwhile compass point.
Wishing you happiness, Edwin
thanks Edwin. appreciate it. and i do want to add - your comments and encouragements have always been a great source of positive energy to me. and for that, i am indebted.
thanks again!
:-)
jeffrey
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